Here are AiAi Delas Alas's 10 rules on relationships
Kapuso Comedy Queen AiAi Delas Alas has a list of love and life rules that she believes in!
On Wednesday's "Fast Talk with Boy Abunda," AiAi shared the 10 rules that she follows when it comes to relationships.
From ways on how to observe and maintain loyalty, to solutions on how to stop feeling envious of others, here is the full list that AiAi goes by.
1. Pag may asawa na, huwag nang tumingin sa iba. Ang totoong nagmamahal ay parang matinong estudyanteng nag-e-exam, hindi tumitingin kahit nahihirapan!
"Dapat ay hindi tayo tumitingin sa iba," AiAi said. "Lalong-lalo na kung tayo ay taken na."
2. Huwag pumatol sa asawa ng may asawa. Ang Makati ay lugar sa Ka-Maynilaan, huwag ugaliin. Ito na lang ay kamutin.
AiAi shared that when someone tried approaching her husband, Gerald Sibayan, she confronted the woman by texting her.
"Tine-text ko," she said. "Sabi ko, 'Natutulog na asawa ko. Sino ka ba? Bakit ka nagte-text?'"
3. Mag-adjust ka kapag nangangalabit si mister. Magpaka-plastic muna, kunwari may gana para magtagal ng bonggang-bongga!
"Ang ibig sabihin nyan, matanda na ako, bata siya. Pag nangangalabit siya, medyo ayoko na pero wala naman akong choice kasi asawa ko siya kaya go nang go!" AiAi said.
4. OK lang gastusan ang minamahal mo. Pero pag ikaw ang laging gumagastos, isip-isip din dahil hindi tama ang magmahal ng mahal.
AiAi admitted that she has experienced buying expensive things for someone she loved, sharing that she once brought a car as a gift.
5. Mga anak, huwag mag-jowa ng ayaw ni mommy. Baka lokohin ka lang o gawing sugar daddy o sugar mommy.
Although AiAi has never experienced being called a sugar mom, she revealed that she has been called a cougar before.
But AiAi brushed off such comments, saying that they don't hurt her.
6. Matuto kang pumikit kapag ikaw ay naiinggit. Kaysa naman lait ka nang lait. Masahol ka pa sa pangit.
"Ibig sabihin non, kunwari diba may mga nakikita ka, lalo na sa social media tapos 'yung iba, mga naiingit, tapos 'yung iba, kaya naiiinggit, bina-bash ka. So dapat, kung inggit, pikit," she said.
7. Magsipag sa trabaho. Maging mabait na katrabaho. Huwag lang jowain ang taken na katrabaho.
"Kailangan makisama sa trabaho mo pero pag may jowa na katrabaho mo na nagkagusto ka, huwag mo nang jowain, hindi maganda!" AiAi said.
8. Huwag maka-sure sa mga hanash mong hindi sure. Kasi malay mo, dito ka pala belong sa tamang panahon.
"Ibig sabihin diba, minsan marami kang sinsasabi sa mga bagay-bagay, tapos dun pala, dun ka rin naman pala babagsak," she said.
9. Iwasan ang lover's quarrel kapag nasa mataas na lugar because it's lonely at the top.
"It's very lonely!" AiAi said.
10. Put God at the center of your relationship because you will never go wrong.
AiAi shared that she and her husband pray together whenever they feel like something is wrong in their relationship.
AiAi and Gerald tied the knot in 2017 at Christ the King Parish Church in Quezon City.
They renewed their vows in Las Vegas in 2022.
—Carby Basina/MGP, GMA Integrated News