Drew Arellano, Iya Villania stress the importance of having 'me time' in a relationship

What is the secret to a happy marriage? It might just be "me time!"

Iya Villania and husband Drew Arellano discussed the value of personal time in their relationship on their podcast "Life with the Arellanos."

In the clip she shared on Instagram, Iya said, "Because if you can give yourself 'me time,' obviously, that's you giving value to yourself."

"If you give importance also to 'our time,' or your time to your partner, it means you're giving value to that person. And with value, I think also comes the respect," she added. "I think the respect for one another is something that helps build the strong foundation."

Drew also said that kids want to see their parents being respectful to each other.

Iya agreed, saying, "You can't expect your kids to be respectful if..."

"If you guys aren't respectful to one another," Drew added, finishing Iya's sentence.

Iya and Drew been married since 2014, and they have four kids, Primo, Leon, Alana, and Astro.

They recently teased fans about having baby no. 5. —Kimberly Tsao/JCB, GMA Integrated News