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Heart Evangelista on taking care of Chiz's children: 'I used to be so confused about it'


Heart Evangelista admitted she had her moments of confusion when it comes to taking care of  the children of her husband Chiz Escudero.

On the latest episode of "Dear Heart," the Kapuso Queen of Creative Collaborations was asked by one of her followers for advice on how she should position herself to the children of the guy she is seeing.

Heart related it to her situation, admitting that in the beginning she herself was also "used to be so confused about it because I'm the youngest in my family."

Heart said Chiz's kids were only four when she came into the picture.

She continued and narrated one instance she had with one of Chiz's twins, Chesi.

"I remember there was this moment where I had one eyeliner on and Chesi was being difficult and my hair was wet and I was doing her ponytail and she was crying and we were in the States and there was no yaya," Heart narrated.

At that moment, Heart said she questioned herself "Can I really do it?"

She said "It's really going to push you to your limit because having a child is very special but your patience has to be the long and winding road you know because technically they are not really yours."

Heart said it's something to think about and if someone is having 50 percent feelings that they are not OK with it, she suggested to just end it.

"I know that's sad but it's just going to be very miserable and sad for you in the future and for the kids that are involved because you're not comfortable about it," she advised.

Heart said she feels very blessed to have Chiz's twins Chesi and Quino because "it does inspire you or it kinda makes you think about it."

"We're really really happy and it all worked out," she continued.

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According to Heart, you shouldn't force herself into the lives of your partner's children.

"You'll never be their mom. You have to understand that and you have to respect that they'll always have their mom. You're just probably going to be their tita but their fun tita," she said.

"They'll feel that if you force yourself or if you're trying hard you just have to be yourself. You have to have pure intentions," she added.