Fan Question: Hello, Katy. First time ko magka-boyfriend. It’s fun. We get to be together every day at school. Sabay kaming kumakain, pumapasok, at umuuwi from school. We go on dates din madalas. Pero napapansin ng mom ko na bumababa ang grades ko. Pansin ko rin naman, mula nu’ng naging kami ng BF ko, hindi na ako nakaka-focus sa studies. So what should I do, Katy? Should I break up with my BF? I love him so much pa naman. Please help me. – From, Ronalyn85
Hello Ronalyn85,
Parang naaalala ko ‘yung situation ko dati. First boyfriend ko rin si Hiro, and sa una talaga, I lost focus on my studies. Akala ko rin dati, I have to choose between Hiro, and my studies. Pero I learned na hindi naman kailangang i-give up ‘yung love mo sa boyfriend mo, as long as you manage your time wisely. Talk with your boyfriend. If he truly loves you, he’ll understand na kailangan mo’ng i-allocate ang oras mo sa iba pang mga importanteng bagay. You can still date and have fun without sacrificing your grades. Use him as your inspiration to grow and improve. Kaya yan!
Love,
Katy