Celebrity breakup: Carla Abellana and Tom Rodriguez
From being a love team to real-life sweethearts, celebrity couple Carla Abellana and Tom Rodriguez proved that real love is hard work and dedication.
Their fans may see their relationship as perfect and beautiful, but what they can't see on-camera is what makes Carla and Tom's relationship even more admirable.
Being together for seven years, the actress acknowledged that it's not always lovey-dovey with Tom as they have gone through a rough patch in their relationship, just like most couples.
Carla also admitted that they had lots of arguments along the way but, eventually, learned to compromise to keep their relationship going which leads them to their supposed road to forever. The celebrity couple exchanged "I dos" on October 23, 2021,
Unfortunately, a few months after their wedding, their relationship ended. Take a look back on TomCar's relationship timeline here:
My Husband's Lover
Carla Abellana and Tom Rodriguez first worked together in GMA gay-themed 2013 drama series 'My Husband's Lover' where they played as wife and husband. According to Carla, it's not love at first sight for her and Tom as they have worked together on several projects before they fell in love with each other.
My Destiny
It was at least a year before Carla and Tom's budding romance began. They got to know each other when they were teamed-up in the GMA 2014 series 'My Destiny,' their second TV project together.
So It's You
The same year, Carla and Tom were paired in a movie titled 'So It's You' where they eventually became closer.
Couple
Because of their frequent on-screen team-ups, Carla and Tom's relationship bloomed and became an official couple in 2014.
Anniversary
Carla and Tom proved that their love for each other is not just for on-screen as they marked their first anniversary as girlfriend and boyfriend in 2015 when they were given separate love teams.
I Heart Davao
Carla and Tom reunited on-screen when they played the lead roles in the 2017 GMA Public Affairs-produced series 'I Heart Davao,' sending kilig vibes to their fans.
Marriage
Four years into their relationship, Carla opened up in an interview with Pep.ph in September 2018 that she is ready to settle down. The actress also revealed that she and Tom already started their wedding talks but then she said, "only God knows kung kailan kami ikakasal."
Living in
Carla feels lucky to spend most of the time with Tom during the peak of the COVID-19 pandemic as the actor moved into her place right before the lockdown. Carla said it was an acid test for them because they learned a lot from each other which made their relationship stronger.
Engagement
On March 21, Tom and Carla announced that they officially sealed the deal by getting engaged. It was in October 2020 when the actor popped the question to her long-time girlfriend in a dreamy and romantic surprise wedding proposal set in a garden-like venue.
Wedding
Now that the big news has been revealed, the countdown begins to Carla and Tom's wedding which will happen soon. Congratulations, TomCar!
Wedding banns
Tom and Carla's wedding banns recently went viral after the San Guillermo Parish in Talisay, Batangas posted it on Facebook. It revealed that the Kapuso couple is set to wed on October 23, 2021 at the Madre de Dios Chapel in Tagaytay Midands.
TomCar Wedding
On October 23, 2021, Tom Rodriguez and Carala Abellana officially became Mr. and Mrs. Mott after tying the knot at the San Juan Nepomuceno Parish Church in Batangas.
First Month Date
Carla Abellana and Tom Rodriguez celebrated their first month as husband and wife with a simple and sweet dinner date. Carla said, “No gifts, no Honeymoon, no surprises, no grand gestures. I booked us a table at a place we haven't tried yet and that's it! A nice and simple Dinner out on our first month as Husband and Wife. ️”
Boracay Vacation
In late November, Carla Abellana and Tom Rodriguez went to Boracay for a vacation with their family and clarified that it wasn't their honeymoon yet.
Christmas dinner with friends
Tom Rodriguez and Carla Abellana had Christmas dinner with their friends in early December.
Unfollowed each other
On January 25, TomCar made headlines as eagle-eyed followers noticed that the newlywed couple is no longer following each other on Instagram. This sparked rumors that the celebrity couple's marriage is on the rocks.
Followed each other again
On January 26, netizens noticed that Carla Abellana and Tom Rodriguez have followed each other again on Instagram. The married couple has yet to react to speculations about their marriage.
"I love you"
Despite the current issue on their alleged marriage conflict, Tom Rodriguez wrote "I love you" for Carla Abellana in the comment section of the latter's Instagram post on February 11.
One-night stand
Rey 'PJ' Abellana, father of Carla Abellana, shared in an interview with veteran showbiz columnist Cristy Fermin that the marriage of her daughter with Tom Rodriguez is on the rocks and the issue of one-night stand is a contributing factor to the conflict.
Rey 'PJ' Abellana
Meanwhile, in an interview with 24 Oras, Rey Abellana clarified his statement about the issue of one-night stand. He said, "At first, nalaman ni Carla na may issue na one night stand na involve si Tom. Si Tom naman already able to explain kay Carla na wala naman din pong katotohanan ito at naiwasan naman din niya na mangyari iyon. Wala pong natuloy na one night stand according to Tom's side naman.”
Cryptic photo
Amid rumors about annulment of their marriage, Tom Rodriguez posted a cryptic photo showing two hands breaking free from chains.
Carla speaks up
After months of being silent, Carla Abellana finally spoke about her breakup with Tom Rodriguez. In a now deleted comment on YouTube, Carla said she was "disrespected, betrayed, lied to, used, shamed, and made to look so stupid."
Love and respect
In the same comment, Carla said she gave Tom, "Tunay na pagmamahal, respeto, pag-aalaga, pag-aaruga, pag-unawa, pagtitiis, sangkatutak na pagpapatawad, milya-milyang pasensya, paniniwala, pagtiwala, pag-aasikaso, pag protekta."
Professional help
Carla also said that she asked Tom to seek professional help five times. She wrote, "Ilang beses ko po siyang hinikayat na magpatingin, magpagamot at magpagaling dahil 'yun din po ang gumana sa akin. Pero wala pa rin po."
Tom's denial
In a statement posted by Tom's manager Popoy Caritativo, he denied that he ever laid a hand (https://www.gmanetwork.com/entertainment/showbiznews/relationship/89618/tom-rodriguez-iginiit-na-minsay-hindi-niya-pinagbuhatan-ng-kamay-si-carla-abellana/story) on Carla. The statement read, "So many lies have been said of me which are completely untrue and utterly unfair. I may have fallen short as a partner, especially when I lost all my money to someone who preyed on my gullibility but it must be stressed that at no time did I ever lay a hand on Carla."
United States
Tom has been staying in the United States since March 2022, when he realized that "despite all my efforts, Carla had already given up on our marriage."
Divorce
In the end, Tom revealed that their divorce decree is final and he's wishing for Carla's happiness.
